Common false
beliefs of Nakshatras
S N Rao
Ever since time
immemorial, it is strongly believed that certain Nakshatras are bad or Dosha
Nakshatras for the girls. But the same Nakshatras are not considered to be
Dosha Nakshatras to the boys. It may appear that even our vedic shastras have
shown discrimination between a girl and a boy in considering the same values in
respect of a horoscope study. Everything envisaged in our ancient Sastras, had
some strong reason or reasons behind it. This aspect of showing a
discriminatory approach to certain Nakshatras between a boy and a girl should
be looked into in the light of the then being socio-economic conditions and family
set up.
The following
Nakshatras of the girls were attributed with the consequntial effects as given below.
Moolam Nakshatra (Moola)
is believed to take a stake on the life of the father-in-law;
Ayilyam Nakshatra
(Ashlesha) is believed to take a stake on the mother - in - law's life;
Revati Nakshatra
is believed to take a stake on the elder brother-in-law's life;
and Visakam
Nakshatra (Vishaka) is believed to take a stake on the younger brother-in-law's
life.
It is also
believed that only the first two pada of the respective Nakshatras are
effective and worth fearing and the 3rd and 4th Pada’s are not considered as
important. While the horoscopes matching process ensures the protection of a
girl, coming into the family of a boy, it also laid some emphasis on the safety
of other persons in the boy's family. The girl is coming into the boy's family
and forms part of it. She is going to live in the same house where the
father-in-law, mother-in-law, elder brother-in-law and younger brother-in-law
are also living which means the family is a joint family set-up for the
consideration of the above Dosha Nakshatras. The boy does not go to the girl's
family and make a living in that house and as such, Dosha was not attributed to
the Boy's Horoscope.
When a girl's
Nakshatra was considered as affecting or influencing some other member of the
family, it was on the concept that they all lived together. In the modern day,
the father, mother, son and daughter have to separate and live in an altogether
different place - away from their joint home - for the purpose of education and
employment. The family's living status is not all the same that was some years
back. Like a girl being separated from her family after the marriage, the
modern economic conditions have brought in separation of the son also from the
family - in some cases - even the husband and wife are separated on account of
their jobs. When a boy gets married, he is not going to live with his parents
or grand-parents. His employment necessarily compels him even before the
marriage to live in a separate place.
A family
consisting of a father, mother, sons, daughters, daughters-in-law and
sons-in-law are all only conceptual and not practical in the present day
scenario. Obviously, the family of a newly married boy is going to be nucleur
and not necessarily a joint family with the father, newly married son, the
brothers (other sons) together in one family. In the changed economic and
social order, when the newly married son is going to live separately and not as
a joint family with his brothers, the question of applying the earlier dosha’s in
respect of Visaka and Revathi Nakshatras does not carry any consideration. Similarly,
when the parents are not going to live with the boy after the marriage, the question
of applying Moola or Ashlesha Nakshatras of the girl will also not arise.
Even living
together as a joint family, our traditional belief that the 3rd and 4th Paada
of Moola and Ashlesha Nakshatras are not harmful, is equally a consideration we
have to bear in mind. I strongly believe that our forefathers would not have
prescribed these as Dosha Nakshatras under the existing social order. I also
strongly believe that the Nakshatra of the girl newly coming into the family can
change the fate of someone in the family, who can otherwise survive the fate. If
something bad happens to anyone in the family because of the arrival of a girl
with a Dosha Nakshatra, the same bad thing should have happened even if the
girl with a Dosha Nakshatra did not arrive into the family. A Dosha Nakshatra
of a girl cannot re-write the fate of any other person, if his/her fate is already
destined.
A Dosha Nakshatra
may be an indicator of something bad but it can never be a creator of anything
bad. This false belief that the girl's Dosha Nakshatra has caused damaged the
life of some other person itself has caused irreparable damage to the lives of
several girls.
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